You could go out with someone of the opposite sex and as for WAS it's all in how you answer their questions. Just say she is just a friend and if OP says you seem to be seeing alot of them say yes I enjoy their company we get along well and it's better than staying home moping about that gets me nowhere. Things like that don't say it is a R let them come to their own conclusion's just be a bit evasive, mysterious and always say it's friendship. That way I think it leaves the door open for WAS to make a move if they want and if they don't it gives us a bit of dignity. This is just my opinion but I have a male friend and that is all he is but my H wonder's about it and I let him, I don't offer to my H anything about my R with friend and it unnerves my H and the funny bit my friend knows all of this and plays along with it.....DKD
