that is my fear as well, but i have gone out and then he does notice, but yes he also does say "if you love and want me back so bad why are you going out with another man?, Youre such a hypocrit!!!! so see you are getting over me" to this i really start back peddling and he reels me back in bawling and crying and reassuring him of my love for him (WTF do you do???) this is the hard part because they're with someone and acting happy but god help us if we try ..... i'm soooo confused by this so don't know what to tell you...
I just did a HUGE 180 that is going to knock H socks, shoes and shorts right off I signed up for golf lessons something he loves to do but i have never had the time to do (i have a box of clubs that i got 7 yrs ago that have been used once at the driving range....so today im off to buy a golf bag)we always talked about me taking lessons and now i am. I paid for it already so i can't back out. Plus i am taking 2 one day workshops one on finances and how to get them in order (if i should ever get any ) and the other one is how to protect yourself and your future finacially when may be getting a divorce. Make him think about that one...not getting a D cause going to continue to DB and save marriage (i think , or at least save me)
Wish me luck on the course .... or everyone standing around me that they don't get whacked.
I signed up for golf lessons something he loves to do but i have never had the time to do (i have a box of clubs that i got 7 yrs ago that have been used once at the driving range....so today im off to buy a golf bag)we always talked about me taking lessons and now i am. I paid for it already so i can't back out. Plus i am taking 2 one day workshops one on finances and how to get them in order (if i should ever get any 
) and the other one is how to protect yourself and your future finacially when may be getting a divorce. Make him think about that one...not getting a D cause going to continue to DB and save marriage (i think 
, or at least save me)
