Fantastic idea for a thread CONGRATULATIONS......My best 180 letting H believe I was seeing an old friend of the opposite sex. Funniest part my H said to me he is meant to have a big schlong (penis) I just smiled and said Mmmmmm. He said Oh so you know and I said H that would be telling and I am not saying anything. Now he always refers to my male friend and asks what he thinks about things. I give very offhanded answers. Funny too S9 calls this male friend of mine my boyfriend. Luckily male friend knows all of this and laughs at S9, never denies anything but did want to know how H knew he had a big ####. During one of mine and H's lighthearted conversations (that was awhile ago now) I asked him and he said I told him. (hahaha) I never did he got it confused with a story about another guy from years ago that dropped it into a billiard pocket when I was playing pool. So my friend and I let him think it. So I guess pretending like you have a life and acting as if have been the things that make my H sit up and take notice as not long after this he tried to say he wanted to give it another go and then after a week ran back to OW, guess I allowed him back to quick so I am at it again......DKD