This is great and is going to generate alot of ideas for people I think! It makes me My biggest 180's so far have been- complete calm. complete validation. always being completely optimistic (in front of H anyway...working on it) So far the biggest shock to him was when I completely detached over night. And when I acted like I didn't know it was our anniversary...can you believe he bought it? And dressing differently, carrying myself more confident and relaxed And when he knew I was making some male friends he got uncomfortable But now it's time for some big guns...some real shockers...but they need to be genuine so creativity and brainstorming is on its way we go out to eat on occassion...thinking about taking him to a strip club...hee heee. That would surprise him!
