>> I really don't think the letter is a good idea. Most DBers will tell you that too. <<
I think know that, too, and have not given it to her because it's not the right thing. And it's just one step away from talking, which gets me into trouble almost every time.
I will, at some point, share my DBing goals with her as per the DR book. I just don't think we're ready for that either.
>> My H doesn't kiss either, he never has much. Just the pecks when we are separating for the day. <<
Yes, my wife is similar, although when she's been aroused she accepts more, but not near what I enjoy. She's just not into the kissing as much as me. I could make out for an hour.
One other little worry I now have is that because it's been so long since we've been intimate that I've got a hair trigger. I've never had that happen before, so it's not something I know how to deal with.
