Quote: I know it's really difficult to figure out what your real baseline needs are sexually when you've been deprived for so long
yes, I thought for the longest time that I wanted sex every single day. Now, I realize I would probably be happy with one a week with an extra thrown in every now and then... this could be stretched out even further if touching were allowed between times...
I HAVE talked with her about this (and it is always a 2 hour nightmare of an arguement) and she pretty much said she is only in the mood every 2 weeks - take it or leave it. She has no desire to change - she has accepted who she is and how she feels about sex and feels that I should do the same.
That sounds pretty cold... and I think it is more harsh than she really wants to be... she said this during an arguement, yet it still sticks in my head. Kinda makes it hard to initiate anything doesn't it??
