I agree with HP. I think the reason your wife might think that you are a bottomless pit of sexuality is that when you reveal yourself bit-by-bit you are practicing a form of deception. I know it's really difficult to figure out what your real baseline needs are sexually when you've been deprived for so long but maybe if you took the time to figure this out and kind of write a little mental essay on the topic, you could present your true self in a straight-forward manner. For instance:
"Based on my experience before marriage and the messages my body sends me, I think I would be satisfied with sexual activity about 2 or 3x a week though this varies and sometimes I might want it every day and other times I might be happy to go a week without. I would like a certain amount of variety in our sex life including especially activities a,b and c and I would like for us to be able to speak freely about the topic generally."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
