Hairdog - I am right there with you guy!

How many times have I bit my lip or held my hands behind my back? Countless... I bet your wife has the same attitude as mine... she feels like all I want her for is sex. She says that I objectify her...

I think her perspective is off by a mile or two...

If you watch TV and you see the "man show" where all these girls are parading around in skimpy bikini's while the guys swig beer and pat them on the rear... THAT is a woman being objectified...

When my wife is wearing a nice outfit and she bends over to get something and I want to pat her on the a$$ and say "that's real nice..." - that is NOT objectifying... that is me saying "my partner really turns me on"

She would see it differently though and we would end up having a lengthy discussion about what a jerk I am...

It kills me to read the post on here from the HD women saying "would my husband just please touch me there?"

geez...

GS