Quote: Sometimes I truly feel I am living my life all canned up. I have only exposed 25% of my sexual appetite in 19+ years of knowing her... I just wish for once I could be 100+ out in the open and be accepted as I am.
GS
Have you told your W that? I'm the HDW and in past times when my H made me feel like a perve (good choice of words btw) I'd immediately put the onus back on him suggesting that maybe the problem was his. He'd brood quietly for a while but then would approach me asking what he could do to improve things in that dept. If I had known about all the SSM and DR/DB techniques back then we probably could have solved that issue way back when. But it was only this past spring when SSM came into our lives and has completely transformed our SL into nothing short of a newlywed atmosphere. Vent all you need, but know things can actually improve for the better. Trust me when I say it couldn't get more LD than my H was. We went 10 years without sexual contact prior to SSM...and that ain't no lie. Hang in there.
