Hello, have you read The Five Love Languanges, by Gary Chapman? I found it most helpful in improving my situation. I went from 4 or maybe 5 times a year to once a week, which in time I hope to ameliorate it to 3x or 4x a week. Doesn’t hurt to be optimistic. I still have to do all the initiating, but in time I’m sure she will get with the program.
