Thank you for the positive words...so much has transpired since my last post!
Well, the OW's H found out about the affair on Thursday of last week. Since then, my H and the OW have ended their relationship. My H called me up on Friday and told me he wanted me to come home. We have talked so much since then and he is apologizing to me constantly which is good. He says this affair opened his eyes to how much he does still love me. He also said he is committed to making our marriage work and that he realizes that the affair was a "fantasy" he was living. He said he wants absolutely nothing to do with the OW ever again. He wants us to move and start new and fresh somewhere else. Although I am happy that he wants to work things out. I am nervous that he may have a relapse because I know that he had strong feelings for OW. He has even said to me that she did hurt him. So how do I deal with that? He will drift off sometimes in his mind and when I ask what he is thinking of, he just tells me that it bothers him all the lies OW has told him. How do I help him to get over that? I need to know how to help him or what to say to him because I know our marriage can't really start over until she is out of his mind. Please help!
