I guess I had the whole goals thing all wrong...I must read my DR book again!
So, last night H called me and he was very depressed. He kept saying he was sorry and never meant for things to happen with OW. He said he should have never let it happen. He is afraid that things may never be the same between us again because he messed it all up. He is afraid of how our families and friends will view him. He said we will probably work things out and that we will need to move. Which is fine with me. But I found out that he told his best friend last night that the OW told my H that she was going to work things out with her H, and that he is really hurt about it. So now I feel like he is going to settle for me because she is backing out. I don't know what to think or do anymore.
