My goals are:

1) My H to ask me to move back home
2) My H to show me more attention/affection
3) My H to end R with OW
4) My H and I to communicate more effectively and strengthen our marriage

I have been GAL. I have been going out with friends a few nights a week...not calling H and not being available for all of his calls. I have done stuff for ME...like going to the spa, going shopping and buying myself things that make me feel good about ME. I have been dieting and losing weight...which makes me feel great. Everytime I have seen him since I moved out I have tried to look great and been sweet as pie.

The baby steps I have noticed, are him calling me more, asking me to come over...he asked me to dinner Friday. He actually kissed me (and not just a peck) which he hasn't done in months...so those are all baby steps....I just want more!