I was posting on newcomers since I am new to the board, but the infidelity forums seem to fit my sitch.
Long story short...my husband confessed to me that he was having an affair with my next door neighbor for about 6 months. He said he was in love with her and wanted to be with her. I have been DBing my butt off and hoping it is working. About two weeks ago, I couldn't stand to stay in my house any longer. So I left and have been staying with my MIL. Before I left, all my H kept saying was ILYBNILWY. He was in love with my neighbor and didn't think things would work out with us because he wanted to be with her. So after I left, we did not talk for a few days. I somewhat went dark. Well last Thursday he called me up and asked me to come over. He wanted me to stay the night with him. So of course, I jumped at the opportunity. We were physical (not intercourse) with each other which hasn't happened in our house since February! Then Friday he asked me over again, and I stayed over again, but in the morning OW called and he talked to her on the phone while I was there, so I got up and left. He then called me to asked why I left, and I just said, "I understand you still talk to her, but I don't like to see it or hear it because it hurts me." He then said he didn't want to sound like an A$$ but he isn't really leaning one way or another right now. He said he really doesn't know what he wants. (when before he was sure he wanted her) Does this sound like my DB efforts may be paying off....even just a little? And where do I go from here??
