Quote: I think you can help him grow out of the coddling and self absorption by living your life in a way that caters to neither.
I think this is true but it's hard to figure out where to draw the line. I feel like maybe I should do some things like stop making him lunches or separate our finances but it kind of feels like the equivalent of when my sister and I used to fight about who was messier and our solution was to divide our room in two with a line.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
