RE JJ most of the HDHs on this BB seem like really nice men who would be great husbands and quite f*ckable in real life, but I've also thought that there's no way to really know that is true since people posting on a BB are 2-dimensional and biased towards themselves True on both items JJ. I am likeable but do have some faults. The big thing us likaeable guys do have going for us is we do want to talk about improving the R.
wives are just clueless in some sort of sad way JJ, I think the wives (and H's too) know on an intelectual level but can't get over their hang-ups about sex. They think they have to have desire before they do much and I suppose some (Women) don't get to that arousal state even when they are having sex.
I do agree with you, some people don't get how lonely, frustrated, and what ever comes to mind, that being sex starved one, for some peoplle they walk around with a piece of their sole crushed. It may not show all of the time but the results do impact the R.
This being a solution oriented site, most of us have read the books and done some of the things in the book to improve the R and hope the sex will also improve. The Crucible works for some things. What is next?
