The "controlled separation" idea sounds kind of interesting. However, I would guess that seeing a marriage counselor should be a necessary first step. I am definitely considering this option when I get back from Alaska. It seems to me that some third party input might make MrW feel less like I'm trying to control the process. Of course, I will still be controlling the process because I will be the one suggesting that we see a counselor (sigh).
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver