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He said that sex isn't the problem. He said we can have sex all the time if he wanted to, but he doesn't want to have sex with me because he doesn't like me.





JJ.......My husband said the same thing to me this weekend. But also added that he just doesn't want to have sex with me. That he doesn't like me. That his drive is fine. It's just me.

In the last year I have been very open and verbal about his sex drive bothering me. I think he is at a point where he is fed up. I am at a point where I would consider divorce in a heartbeat to go and find an awesome HD male.

I told my husband I still consider his behavior weird with being male. Oh I don't want to have sex with you. I told him women are the ones who seem to hold onto resentments and withhold sex. Then he got REALLY mad because he thinks this one girl I work with is pretty. She has become a friend to me and I confided in her about my situation. She is my husband's age and her response was ewwwwwwwwwww that is gross and weird. You are a very pretty girl. I never knew a guy could be that way.
The reason I brought this up to my husband is because he seems to act like I am the only one who could think his behavior was weird. So he got mad and called me the C word when I brought up the fact I confided in her and what her response was. He has never called me this and knows this is a big no no with me. I did slap him. He has still yet to appologize. We were seperated but then he came back to help out with the kid's while I worked. Now I wish I would have never of even allowed him to come back.