Quote: However, the bit on "marrying up" and the resentment about having to be the breadwinner, and the low self esteem (ego-borrowing) are pretty substantial. I think you ought to focus on this, rather than the sex. (Did I just say that?)
LOL- I agree but I think that I can't really focus on the basis for his resentment but only the ways in which the resentment manifests itself in our relationship and affects me directly. All I can do is continue to build and maintain my own boundaries regarding sex and rude behavior.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
