We can't go through life looking over our shoulders. We must pick a direction and move forward. These are our choices. Some make choices based on what other may percieve as the right choice. These are the people who never truely find happiness because they are trying to please others and not themselves.
You on the other hand have made choices based on what YOU want. Choices that are truely destined to be the best choices for YOUR family, YOUR kids and YOUR spouse. The road you have chosen was not the easy road, but it is the right road.
So walk with your head high! You fought for what YOU wanted and have WON!!!!!!
