WAH working on R, what now?

[Pipeliners_wife]

He had it in his mind a month before actually telling me that he wanted to seperate. Dropped the Bomb, March 20. May 15th I found out about the OW, and it was July 1st when he decided to try things again. 4.5 months or soo. However, my H is not home all the time. He works all over AB, and leading up to the seperation, I had maybe seen him 12 days since xmas.