I wish people around me really understood the hard work that is involved in saving a marriage. Its no gravy train. The hardest part is staying focused and positive while the ones I love are telling me I'm wasting my time. They still are telling me "they hope this marriage is for real, and that its not a stop over till my H finds another slut" But I can't and won't worry about that. I live for today, and today we are happy and together. We are a team, and a family. Today my H is my best friend, and I respect him.

I try to post as much as I can. I reply when I feel I should. What has worked for me, may not work for others, so I tend to read and give advice when I feel is needed.

But feel free ANYONE and ask questions. We're all together on this BB. We all want to save the marriage.


I saved my marriage and so can you....Its all about positive thinking...