WAH working on R, what now?

[Pipeliners_wife]

Thanks for the comments WAWFighter and for cheering me up, and sorry for telling you more detail than you wanted to hear.

I do need to take a different approach. I understand that my H is working long hours, but sometimes I feel like its just an excuse. I work hard too, just differnt jobs. And sometimes I feel like I never get a day off, because my job is never ending. I love doing it, but sometimes it would be nice if someone catered to me the way I do to them.

I am mega preg. I have 9 weeks left and am feeling it. I can't wait to have my own body back!!!! I just want to be normal!

So any suggestions on how to get my H to help out more without asking. I'm scared of asking for help because that may lead to sometype of "r" talk, and I don't want to push him away, but I also don't want the same relationship as we had before this crap all happened.

Maybe I'm posting in the wrong spot. Someone must be able to help me with getting my marriage back on a healthy track.