It sure is welcoming to see the both of you are doing great! I can see you both smiling as you type these posts, that is excellent.
I just returned from a small vacation...... to Canada. I went up to the cottage with my brother to get a few things ready for my Dad. He is in Florida and we figured we would help him out. Built an outdoor shower and installed a new screen door in the sweltering heat. It was fun but the heat sucked.
FYI - I signed D papers last week. As much as it was something I never wanted to do, I couldn't hold out forever. I know I have done all I could and there is comfort in that. It truely does take 2 to put forth some effort. You both are very fortunate your spouses swallowed their pride and are willing to try. I'm OK with the whole thing. This mess is one of the life events that define a persons true character. I can say without hesitation, I am proud of who I am and what I have done. My STBX can not.
Anyway, enough of that. You two are inspirations to all the people here. I think you both have recieved posts exclaiming how the others here have been inspired by your success. Keep in mind, YOU did the work and should be VERY proud of what you have done. It has defined your true core values, your commitment to marriage and your character.
