Hi PLW, Just wanted to drop in and let you no I am still here, I catch up on your thread as often as I can. Life has been soooooo busy lately. Our computer at home is not working and I am so busy at work these days I bearly have time to breath. I am so very proud of you, good work!!! Now just remember not to push him into meeting you half way. However watch for signs that he is working on the marriage too. Dont be a doormat, you have worked hard to get here, now he has to work too. Are you guys going to C ? As for this week, let him lead, try not to push. Make his favorite meals, keep up with your changes, maybe suggest the three of you go for a pinic at the lake. Build a sand castle as a family. Go for walks, talk! Try not talk about the R to much, just enjoy one another this week. ( you have the rest of your lives for R talk) Make him feel at home, in the "OUR HOUSE" not "YOURS". Maybe come to Calgary and take D to the stampede. Take a drive, find ways too reconnect.Leave D with your parents and go to the stampede, have fun! (if you want to go to ranchmans let me no, I have VIP passes for this week)(I also have Kim Mitchell tickets if you want) Keep me posted, feel free to email me at work anytime, as my studid computer at home is not working. cwoods@renfrewchrysler.com