Rather than talking or asking about it, have you tried to initiate anything yourself? And seeing how grouchy H can be in the morning, is there a better time during the day and/or night when H might be more receptive? If you just went in for a kiss or a snuggle without saying anything first, do you think H would push you away? Or do you think he would be ok with that?
Maybe since H has always been the one to initiate, do you think you could try it a little more? And remember that timing is everything.
Just a suggestion, and I hope it helped some. Take care.
JV
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination."
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
