I don't understand how he can feel it's ok to just sit there on the couch with them, while I brush their teeth, get their shoes on, make their breakfast....

You're right. But I can relate. It's just not how he sees his role. It's part of his mindset that needs to change. Put it on your list, prioritize it, and have the talk when it floats to the top. "H, I need to be in a relationship with a co-parent. The Play Parent and Work Parent roles will not work." Okay, maybe not that heavy.


He drinks who knows how many O'Douls and he drinks six regular beers mixed in between...

He must have to pee a lot.



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