Quote: Do you really think he doesn't love or like you but he's willing to live with you for, what, 16 more years just so he can be with his kids all the time?
Uh, yes. That's the short answsr since NY indicated yesterday perhaps I should work on being a little more concise with my answers
Ok guys, I'm discouraged. H came home last night, I wasn't happy to see him, started getting those familiar feelings of wanting to create distance. I went to bed as soon as we got home from the baseball game. I don't want him to come home. But I'm comfortable with knowing we're friendly and I haven't had to give up my kids any and I have the comfort of knowing he's there if I need him, like if the lights break or something. Can't have it both ways though can I? I don't know what to do.
Ok, so you don't have much hope that H will change. What about me? You've read a great deal of my interactions with my H. Kim mentioned some insecurities that shine through here. Tell me what she means. I can keep working on myself and maybe that will help take the frustration away.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
