I can totally see why you would say that, after reading back over what I wrote, it did sound like H put on quite the seduction. But I don't think that's what it was because H knows he doesn't have to seduce me to get sex. We have sex regularly, with me initiating just as often as he does. We don't really have any issues with that.
My fear is that he's noticed it doesn't bother me as much when he ignores me. So, he's trying to step up the affection so I'll notice more and be more willing to cooperate when he pulls it away?
Or maybe I'm paranoid and am mistaking genuine baby steps for manipulation.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
