It's funny you know. I have a friend with two boys and they have "action figures" all over the house, star wars, GI Joes, etc. My house it's Polly Pockets. Same stuff, different gender.

If you can relax and let them go with H without making a deal about it, it will help the kids relax too, and give you some Heather time.

By the way, It's Barb, but don't tell anyone, OK...I was really nervous about posting and opening up when I first started, so I gave myself a different name. Now, I think I would answer to either. Take care. B


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