I feel like this new R between H and I resembles the one we had when we first got together, with me feeling inferior.

he got really snotty and said "oh, so you're nap should take precedence over me working out?"

H didn't really hide the fact that he wasn't happy about being asked to do it but he agreed.

H doesn't seem to give a rip what I want.

H has a profound belief in justice I am finding out. Justice of course for violations against him not committed by him. Those he commits he simply doesn't acknowledge.


So, I think you said somewhere you were going to read "The Emotionally Abusive Relationship"... and what will you do with that knowledge?