Hi gbhost I too read this essay and would love to send it to my H OW cuz i would love for her to read "wonderful people don't screw around with married people) but when you are going through a crisis in your own life, can't continue living your life as it is," cuz she chased my H because she was unhappy in her marriage...i know that H made the final choice but would love for her to read that about herself cuz she has called me to say shes sorry that they never meant to hurt anyone (me, my 3 kids, her H and her 2 kids) I would love to hear what she had to say to anyone about that!!!