This is an tremendous post and it helped me a lot. My wife has become desperate to find her happiness and has become involved with and fallen in love with an unhappily married man. They also share a common hobby. In my distress I have gone to a psychiatrist 4 times. He has helped me to understand that until my wife is ready to get help that there will be no opportunity for relationship recovery. Reading this post helped me to understand the difficulty of situation she has created and actually helped to ease my anger with the situation.
