Hey folks, the point of the article is that the WAS's mind set is far removed from yours, conversely, your thinking isn't aligned with theirs.
Leaving a print out to be discovered isn't the course to take, that usually backfires. They're NOT going to think like you, and they'll know that you left the article out not accidentally, and all that will likely happen is that they'll try to prove you wrong and raise their walls more so.
Another thing I've learned is that it doesn't matter if the WAS is going through MLC, romantic affairs, exit affairs, puberty (OK, I'm making a little joke here), what degree of fog they're in, OP or no OP, depressions, this that or the other... the bottom line remains significantly the same. You have a sitch that requires your patience and your GAL, detaching, focusing solely on yourself, building a friendship if you can with the WAS by you bending over backwards and rebuilding your life come what may and letting go... and if that attracts your ex back in time then that's what happens, period.
