WOW! Couldn't have been said better...it's like I was writing about my H. He is escaping now and I see it so clearly...he's been running from issues his whole life, let alone responsibility. He did it in all his relationships, I just happened to be the one that married him. Now I'm leaving with our son, who was just born on June 20th and H and I will be an ocean away ( OW came into the picture 4 months ago, but i also found out about numerous one- night stands ). Once we're gone I don't think OW will be able to sustain his happiness...the 'drug' will start to wear off. Then he'll be completely by himself to pick up the pieces.
so sad the chances WASs are willing to take for a temporary 'high' or 'fix'.
