LP, you are better spoken than me, better read than me; however, we are so much alike in other ways. Alike in our partners curses and in this case, making a sensual event out of the cleansing process. Sorry I hadn't read this far when I opened my trap above. Just goes to show ya, it may be a great idea!
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
How old are you two? What are some of his other MLC symptoms? (outside of the grooming) How did he learn of this technique, shaving the testicles and such.
(OK, all I can think of is late in my teenage life some decades ago. It was something to do with braces and teeth that grabbed hair VERY painfully. Is there any chance that such a thing has happened to him? The snagging hair I mean. This would account for the Metro Grooming techniques and the somewhat adverse reaction to BJ)
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
SP, Did you use to offer bj's as a way to opt out of sex?
If so, they may just have a bad connotation now. It may remind him of when you used to offer this instead of sex and he may start thinking, Does she not want sex now? Is this a mercy offering?
Maybe his mind starts running and ruins the experience for him.
At any rate, it's his problem.
Try not to worry about it. Continue to be the nice person that you sure sound like, and he'll come around once the dust settles.
HP
P.S. GGB, I was talking about him performing oral on me. I got off on a tangent and forgot to mention where my mind was wandering. I think he still likes bj's though he only asks or "lets" me do it about once a year.
Quote: P.S. GGB, I was talking about him performing oral on me. I got off on a tangent and forgot to mention where my mind was wandering. I think he still likes bj's though he only asks or "lets" me do it about once a year.
Oh, OK. I can see how some guys might be turned off by it I suppose. Me? I love giving! I remember how hurt I felt a few years ago when MrsGGB said she didn't want me doing it anymore. This past year now that things are a little better, she allows it again, and seems to enjoy it. She still thinks it is gross, though and won't let me kiss her until I've brushed my teeth, used mouthwash and scrubbed my face. Jeez, you know if it were toxic, I wouldn't be camping down there for an hour at at time! I'm beginning to think that her thinking it is gross contributes to her not letting me finish her off.
Oh my, here I go hijacking a thread again sorry SP1!
So he is shaving his lower region (which draws attention to his privates) but then does not want you to be down there? A man that does not want a BJ, VERY starge behavior!! The only thin I can think of is that your BJ's are actually numbing his sensations down there. Maybe as he has aged, he has lost some of the sensetivity in that region, and BJ's just make it even number. Does he have high blood pressure? This causes problems in male genitalia. Does he have weight problems, maybe he is uncomfortable with his body shape.
Hmm, Cemar, I don't see anything in Song of Solomon which can be understood as a command or even a suggestion to love anyone's belly. There are a couple references to bellies in the description section, but even if there was, I doubt it could be stretched into the BJ reference you want. No, the Old Testament God would likely look on BJ's as an abomination.
Hi LG - Thanks for another option. We had some success this weekend which I will post about
SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
Hi Lou - Thank you so much for posting all this info
I will have to read it in portions (since my online activity is while at work).
I appreciate all the info!
SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
We are in are mid 30s. I think you are on to something here because the shaving starting in relation to sports events so it may be some hair pulling, etc.
Thanks again, SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
