SP1 my W's/BB UTI have almost stopped our SL. I have been trying th help BB reduce them but it has taken 3 months for her to do much about them. I bought and read 2 books and have searched the internet (medical pages, not some pill pushers) for the last 3 months, 50+ articles. I will post the long version I found if you would like me to.
About 85% of UTI are from E coli from the stool that does not get washed off when you have a BM. Just walking around some of the E. Coli rubs on your underwear and works it's way from the back to the front. Same thing happens to men. Passing gas can expel and spread E.Coli too. Men and women should wash after every BM or when they have lots of gas.
About getting your H more in tune with your UTI's get him to go along to the Dr. when you go and let him pay the bill for the visit and meds every other time you get a UTI. Hopefully that will get him to consider how much you have to go through when a UTI hits you. When I wrote the check for BB's UTI's ($70 office visit insurance with $20 co-pay and $23 to $36 for pills)I almost said it would be cheaper to visit a hooker. I kept my mouth shut.
So far HP has the short solution. Pee, sex, pee. A little longer one is pee, wash anal area with mild soap, rinse back and front, sex, pee, rinse front area with a shower head on a hose. It does not take long. Then go back to bed and cuddle.
I have to service 3 customers so have to quit posting for now.
