I completely agree with Jo here. Is there something that happened in the past week for this negative trend? What is the need to get attorneys involved? (Dont trust lawyers - WAW is one ). I dont believe in increasing the negative energy in a sitch. It is best to do nothing when the impulse is to get combative. And to give it time and take action only when you are relatively calm. Much crap has happened in your sitch lately. Why not wait for a while until things become clear. Has WAW withheld visitation with S5? Has she acted on her "threat" to move away?
I believe you are doing the right thing by detaching. Your WAW is making a terrible mistake and is acting like a teenager. Just stay away and stay the course of self-improvement. Let her sway in the winds while you hold steady. Make no movements other than those absolutely necessary. Just my 2 cents, Gabriel.
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.