Don't give up because of OM. I have been through OM1 and OM2 in the last year. Because of the OM I have become stronger, more patient, better at listening, better at complimenting and in my own mind better than them in everything. This may sound a bit cocky, but they were not even competion. OM1 couldn't handle her after a few months, he only saw her a couple times a month and couldn't handle her needs. The poor baby had panic attacks. OM2 was a complete joke, he couldn't keep her happy for a month.
Us DBers can get down for a day or two, but we never stay down. You know tons more than the average male about relationships, so in the long run you will win.
I hope you come back and post, because you have been an inspiration to all of us! I also know that when things go south it helps to post, we vent on the BB and it keeps us from venting at our X-es.
Keep praying, put the sit. in God's hands and keep GAL.
