My 'me-first' attitude was none too soon. My intuition last weekend (her staying out Fri) was accurate. There is now an OM in my sitch. Maybe its just a casual date/sex, maybe more. Regardless, it is time for me to stop treating her like a W and merely provide her CS and appropriate space.
I'll still be DBing in the sense that I'll keep all of my improvements in place and will keep the door cracked open. But as I noted to Kevin (Bulldogr; yes, he's still alive and doing well! ) and LostinLimbo in late night phonecalls to vent last night, what is good for the goose is good for the gander. And this is now the time for me to GAL with way more playfulness, fun, and spirit so that my life and my time with S5 is truly celebratory.
Yes, my snooping bit me in the a$$, but I feel like I have a bit of 'closure' if you would, with my pull to 'save' her or caretake for her being inappropriate pursual that likely left her despising me or disrespecting me at some level.
Anyway, folks, I'll be posting less than before. At least for awhile, as I need a break from focusing on W so much. Just wanted to inform you all so no one sent out the search parties. I'll be back.
) and LostinLimbo in late night phonecalls to vent last night, what is good for the goose is good for the gander. And this is now the time for me to GAL with way more playfulness, fun, and spirit so that my life and my time with S5 is truly celebratory.
