I will only reiterate what the others here have said. It seems you feel this necessity to apply pressure to convince her she is wrong and how wonderful you are and good the R can be. And as you well know, this IS not productive.
But when the others tell you to stop, back off and do not talk about the R, you grudgingly agree, but I can almost here you saying, "ok, ok, but what do they know, I know my W better than anyone and I know if I just keep at her she will turn around and I will get a result." And we all know it will NOT be the result you desire.
You are an intelligent, articulate individual in good health with many positives in your life, quit focusing on the negatives and focus on you and life and S5.
