Actually, it's from one of the e-books circulating the internet! I decided to re read it as another viewpoint than dr but the principles are similar.

After reading it last nite, I figured I may take this approach to sorta clear the air from my R talks w/ex. I'm hinting around that there may be s/t new going on in my life and telling some people we mutually know that I needed the info for closure. I'll keep you posted!
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