Just got back from a trip and trying to catch up on everything.
You have indeed had a chequered week with the W. Wes has the right idea, when yoru PMA is high, your W may actually be jealous of your high PMA. She may try to raise hers by doing something that she feels would raise her PMA but the emptiness within her keeps getting in the way. This may actually make her angry at herself, you, S5, the world. I have experienced this myself in my 2-year ordeal. The only solution is to detach and focus on you and S5 (DBing basics really).
There is a spiritual void in your W, same as mine. They are lost souls, they do not understand themselves, let alone understand anything outside of them. And if they do not know who they are, there is little chance for us to know who they are now.
Regarding your S5's bedwetting, though, I want to ask you, could it be because he is stressed. I have heard that kids of divorced/separated parents tend to have that problem. Your S5 seems very perceptive and cognizant of this schism in his young life. Is it stressing him out? I dont know, just a thought.
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
