Wes makes some good points. I have fallen off the DB bandwagon as well several times in the past. But you know what, the short-term consequences of such falls are quite bad with the WAW lashing out at me or drawing the D guns, but in the long run they do process what you say. So, you said what you said. Just get your PMA back up and keep moving. Let her process it. Deep down she knows it's true. I liked the errors of omission and comission business. R's are dynamic interactions of two people. Anybody who thinks one person just messed it all up is smokin' something bad....That said, you have been operating in the B grade level in the DBing course lately I know that you know it. Happens to the best of us. Now I can feel good when I fall off the DB wagon, knowing that it has happened to even Gabriel
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.