Actually, if you take your S5 more often and your W loses time with him, here are the positives: 1. You spend more time with S5. 2. Your W will now have to find things to do to fill the time and she is most likely going to (at least in a couple of months) find that she is lonely. 3. Your WAW may actually lighten up due to the relief and if you maintain your PMA it may result in a better R. 4. Your WAW may get time and space to do the "internal work" necessary for her to get out of the tunnel and see the light. Of course the minuses are obvious
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.