Hmmm..."pulling a Wes", huh? I am glad that it turned out well. There were several positives in that report, not the least being that your W backed off somewhat and also came forward with some of her irritation.
Of course, the improvement will take place in fits and starts....
BTW, my WAW never admitted her faults during our approx 10 year R also. But lately she has been doing that on occasion....
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.