Thanks Lost!

You've always had a good angle on W and that was helpful.

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*Always let her see you but always be positive when it happens especially when the meeting is unexpected.
*Don't allow yourself to feel as though you are walking on eggshells. You have come too far for that now.



These are excellent points. You are doing so well with keeping things positive and playful, and I need to work more of that into my interactions with her.

Last night, after I talked to S5, W and I talked briefly on the phone to discuss this weekend, and I was able to disarm her distance, and she ended up telling me about a few of his latest antics and his current effort to stay up late or have her go to bed with him. She also brought up that she would be going out with married GF this evening, as if to reassure me. We ended up laughing together on the phone, and I heard a heartfelt mutual "You have a good evening, too" when I offered that initially.

Gabriel


God heals the broken-hearted (Psalm 147:3)

Me: 44
W: 40
Separated 8/2011

S12
SD14
SS12
SD10