Hey Wes and Jo,

Just read your posts. Ees, I see your point regarding thinking of W as Dad's DIL for many years. The idea that she was working hard not to show any emotion is a good possibility as well. That level of immaturity get tiring... I remember crankin up that treadmill I went on next. Kept a smile on my face, but boy did I smoke it for a good 30 min.

In terms of a more compassionate view of her, yeah it was an unplanned contact, so I did take her by surprise, walking up beside her while she was sweaty in shorts and a exercise tanktop. Maybe it triggered a sense of vulnerability/fear? Like, is he checking my ___ out? (yes, of course )

Jo, you're right. It was just her WAS-alien mode talking, and I need to send it to the dumpster quick as just that and nothing more... Glad to see you safely back on the BB. Worried about you and your kids today.

Gabriel


God heals the broken-hearted (Psalm 147:3)

Me: 44
W: 40
Separated 8/2011

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