Ouch. These WA can cut right where it hurts huh? Yes, it sounds like her selfishness combined w/you catching her at an unprepared moment and being nice and friendly about it!
You did good w/the moment tho. Sounds like you had the adult behavior here and she had the childish side going!
And as for her comment. Even people w/only a 5% chance can bounce back. My s17's dad had only that much of a chance the first year he was diagnosed (different C than your dad's tho) and he not only bounced back, but came off dialysis (which I never knew could be done!) and lived 5 years longer than they said he would. (his bad habits got to him, not the chemo. he was a chronic smoker until he passed, not good when C has spread to the lungs)
