NYS, sorry, but I have absolutely no intention of waiting around that long if she allows the divorce to be finalized. I have already made up my mind that by then I will be done.
This fantasy she maintains involves us having this wonderful relationship AFTER the divorce. These little comments about vacationing together in her mind do not involve reconcilliation, but this lala land she is in.
PPL, when all this started and I did not know about DBing I tried to talk her into seeing a C but she would have nothing to do with it. Right now she thinks everyone else in the world needs a C, just not her.
